This brings me to my next decision, do we wait one more year to work on baby number 3? Bobby and I always imagined all our babies would be close in age. We like the age gap we have now with the girlies but throwing another into the picture right now just seems a little crowded. I would love to welcome another into our home but I have to keep in mind our support group. We are lucky to have family that help us out A LOT with child care. Currently, my sister and Bobby's sister is pregnant. We are so happy to be getting more cousins for the girls but that does play on our decision to add another to our supportive family at this time.
|Family of four|
I also want to go back to school to pursue a degree in Occupational Therapy. Would child #3 be put on hold again? For what, 3 more years until i finish school? Are my dreams too much for my family right now? What's better, going to school now when their little or waiting until their going to school themselves? That just doesn't seem realistic to me. At this point, i feel like i need to let that dream go. I really should have taken care of that before i had a family.
Also, we want to move into a new house. How do we do that? When is it a good time? Is it financially responsible? Where would we live? I can't find a house that comes close to what we have now. I love our house but want to live in a different neighborhood. Can i just rent those "Wide load" trucks and move it? How much would that be?
On a brighter note: One of my dreams is coming true this year! We are finally going on the Mediterranean Cruise! We have our hotel booked and paid the deposit for the cruise! It's really happening. I really did not think we would be doing this until well into our second lag in life. I'm so excited!! Young and in love in Italy, Spain and France! Life is good!